Use this as your one-page reference. If a step feels like too much, skip it — the party still works.
Three weeks out
- Pick a date and lock in the guest list (6-12 people is ideal).
- Choose a kit or hosted experience.
- Assign characters based on personality — biggest role to the biggest talker.
- Send invites with date, time, address, character, and a costume hint.
Two weeks out
- Read the host guide front to back. Highlight the timeline.
- Order any props the kit doesn't include (name cards, a "murder weapon" prop, a fake newspaper).
- Confirm any dietary asks from guests.
- Decide on food you can serve without cooking during the party.
One week out
- Print character booklets and clue cards. Put each character's materials in its own labeled envelope.
- Group text: reminder of date, time, and character.
- Buy drinks. Pitchers and bottles, not cocktails to order.
- Test-play your timing: read the schedule out loud to make sure it fits your evening.
Day before
- Cook or prep anything that reheats well (slow-cooker mains, dips, dessert).
- Clear the main table. Set out chairs, name cards, and character envelopes at each seat.
- Stage props in the rooms they'll be discovered in.
- Charge speakers. Queue a themed playlist.
Day of
- Finish food prep by early afternoon.
- Set the drink station and light snacks 30 minutes before arrival.
- Dim the lights slightly. It changes the mood more than you'd expect.
- Put your phone on Do Not Disturb.
- Skim the reveal one more time so you can drop it cleanly.
As guests arrive
- Hand each guest a drink before their envelope.
- Point them to their seat and character booklet.
- Give a 5-minute read-in window before you start.
Running the night
- Announce the opening scene from the host guide.
- Drop clues on the schedule — set a phone timer if you need to.
- Nudge quiet guests: "Have you talked to [character] yet?"
- Watch the pace. If a round is stalling, move to the next clue early.
The reveal
- Gather everyone in one room.
- Read the reveal from the kit.
- Let the killer confess in character.
- Photo. Then dessert.
After
- Send the group text: photos, the killer's identity for anyone who missed it, thanks.
- Save the kit if it's reusable, toss the props that aren't.
What to skip if you're short on time
- Costumes beyond a hint or accessory.
- Themed food (a normal dinner works fine).
- Custom decor (name cards + one prop per room is enough).
What not to skip
- Assigning characters in advance.
- Reading the host guide before the party.
- Prepping food the day before.
The lazy-host route
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FAQ
Do I really need to assign characters in advance?
Yes. Character assignment is where the fun starts — the person playing the lounge singer needs a week to lean in. Random draw at the door falls flat.
What's the minimum prep I can get away with?
Kit, character envelopes at each seat, snacks and drinks, dim lights. Everything else is polish.
Can I run this without printing anything?
Yes, if the kit is digital and guests read from phones. It works. Paper works better — people put their phones down and stay in character.